My Personal Cantor » happiness http://mypersonalcantor.com Cantor Ballard is a Jewish and Interfaith wedding officiant in South Florida, as well as an Independent Lifecycle Officiant. Thu, 15 Jul 2010 20:41:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 My new Twitter friend…Hello Banjo… http://mypersonalcantor.com/2008/11/my-new-twitter-friendhello-banjo/ http://mypersonalcantor.com/2008/11/my-new-twitter-friendhello-banjo/#comments Sat, 08 Nov 2008 05:07:22 +0000 admin http://cantorballard.wordpress.com/?p=254 Is looking for blog mates, selling some really cute stuff that she makes by hand, is selling a beautiful dress on Craigslist, is working on her Graduate degree, AND is planning a wedding to her really cute fiancee.  On top of all of that, she is celebrating a 4 year anniversary of sobriety.  All of this might sound overwhelming, but on a recent blog post, Banjo expresses her over-running cup of enthusiasm, and tells us that she feels like a million bucks.

Her positive attitude and love for life is what made me decide to write a blog post about her.  I bet she makes a conscious daily decision to CHOOSE happiness.  She is someone who at her very young age has obviously found a lifestyle that makes her happy on the inside, and so she exudes happiness on the outside.  I wish all young people could learn that in order to find happiness, they must go in search of it, and that search begins with a clear mind and a conscious choice as to how they want things to be.

Great lives don’t just happen to us by accident.  How many of us have those friends who ALWAYS seem to be in drama and trauma, and overall chaos?  How many of us look at others who seem to have everything going right for them?  Is it fate?  Is it accident?  No – it’s a conscious choice about how things should be.

Banjo – Kudos to you for choosing your positive life.  I hope you spread it around some more, and I hope more people give you some real estate on their blog.  You earned yours on mine!

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]]> http://mypersonalcantor.com/2008/11/my-new-twitter-friendhello-banjo/feed/ 1 Taking inventory, saying thanks, and planning a new year http://mypersonalcantor.com/2008/09/taking-inventory-saying-thanks-and-planning-a-new-year/ http://mypersonalcantor.com/2008/09/taking-inventory-saying-thanks-and-planning-a-new-year/#comments Tue, 16 Sep 2008 02:27:00 +0000 admin http://cantorballard.wordpress.com/?p=208 I was sitting here, thinking of all the overdue posts I have to write about, and all the organizing and task lists that need to be handled, and I realized that before I did one more thing, I wanted to reflect on what has made this month incredibly amazing.  Because, without the events of this past month, next month, and the months after just wouldn’t be possible. I think it’s soooo important to say thanks – even for the small things, like someone stopping by and saying hello on my blog.

First, my Mom had surgery last Thursday on her back, and I’m happy to say she came through with flying colors.  It’s been a long time (Thank You, G-d) since anyone in my family has had any health concern at all, so this one was scary, but she’s on the road to recovery.  I’m so thankful that I have both of my parents, and they are in great health.  The alternative is unthinkable, so I’d like to keep this status quo for a LONG time.

Second, I think Lauren and Trevor are beginning to settle in to this year, so I’d like to say THANKS to them both, for being great grown up children, and spreading their wings.

I have some great new weddings that I am planning – and I am so thankful that the calendar is filling up daily!  I looked at my spreadsheet yesterday, and every month is just jam packed with weddings, Bar Mitzvahs, and lots of other great events.  I’m co-officiating a Jewish/Catholic wedding in Gainesville in May, a 2nd wedding for a lovely couple right here at home, the wedding of a good friend’s son, and lots of upcoming events in Mexico, Puerto Rico, and The Bahamas.  (Doesn’t anyone want to hire a Cantor on the Amalfi Coast in Italy????)

On the Bar Mitzvah front, I’m going to do the Bar Mitzvah for my friend Jacey’s brother in law in Chicago, a Bar Mitzvah on a yacht, and then, of course, there is Andrew’s(Spencer’s brother) Bar Mitzvah next year, on the Majesty of the Seas.  I recently began working with 2 new families in Boca, and I’m alternating their tutoring sessions with live & video chat formats.  So, I’m really thankful for web technology that lets me do this, from my office.

Along the way, I’ve met many incredible people out here on the internet, and I’m also incredibly thankful for them, and wish them the best of luck.  The top few are Roz, from www.sayitwithecards.com.  She makes beautiful e-cards for Jewish holidays.  Then, there’s Alex Klein (Are you out there Alex??) who I feel very connected to through our writings, in the gulf coast.  I hope he has made his way online after Hurricane Ike, and I have been thinking about him daily.  Tomorrow, I  am meeting Lisa, from Torah Tunes, who just happens to be in South Florida visiting from the North.  Today, I heard from 2 new friends – Audrey & Rob.  Audrey just dropped by and said hello, and I can’t believe how happy that made me.  Just to hear from someone, who took the time to make me feel special.  THANKS.  And Rob – with his very cool Mitzvah Art.  I sent a link to his website around to my most special contacts, and I think I made him feel special too.  OH – And then there is Jenni – She was soooo funny when she sent me an email the other day, pleading with me to book a date for her (sight unseen) and telling me that I fit right in to her family so well, I was going to become a member!  I cannot wait for that wedding!!! (Mexico, May 09)  I actually DO feel like part of the family already!

I’m so thankful for all the great contacts I’ve made, the word of mouth referrals that so many of my past clients have offered, and the work I get to do with close friends, because – that is the greatest compliment of all.  Thanks to everyone who supports me, who has been my greatest champions and cheerleaders, and for those who love me the most.  Those of us whose job it is to give from our hearts, cannot possibly continue to give without the love and support of those around us, and I am so lucky to receive so much love from my closest friends and family.  I am so excited about the coming months, and the opportunities ahead of me.  I am so thankful for my new clients, and my new friends, and I am so amazed at how the universe brings us just the right things, and just the right time, when we have faith it is so.

Thanks.

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